Definition of gratitude; ‘the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.’
Thank you to the coaches that I asked to share some of their thoughts and gave me some material for this post. Great responses!
Before listing some of the many things most coaches are thankful for and having some fun, I felt compelled to mention some things I personally am very grateful for this Thanksgiving.
My loved ones, my family, my friends and the great people I work with. My health, my happiness and all the incredible things that I have been blessed to experience over the years, including coaching.
50 Things Coaches are ‘giving thanks’ for this year:
Home games.
Road trips.
Practices.
Power Forwards.
Pesky Forwards.
Passionate players.
Calm players.
White boards.
Respectful cellys….(that means celebrations I guess…..)
Blue line and backs….
Red line and backs…..
Down and backs….
Over and backs…..
Video.
Good power plays.
Better penalty kills.
Solid forwards.
Solid defense.
Rock solid goaltending………
Parents who see the ‘big picture’.
Advisers who actually advise…….
Players who forecheck well.
Players who backcheck always.
The top player on the roster,
The last player on the roster…..
Leaders.
Followers….
Warm coaches coats.
Bad rink coffee.
Good bus drivers.
Respectful scouts.
Team meals.
Team managers.
Unselfish players.
Unselfish parents.
Coaches who share information.
NHL Center Ice package.
Pre-game meals.
Post game decompression sessions…..
Good ice when you team is playing well.
Bad ice when they are struggling…..
Players that don’t talk back.
Players that say thank you…..
Players that that are thankful for their parents sacrifice.
Loved ones.
Family.
Friends.
Great people to work with.
Health.
Happiness.
All the incredible things experienced over the years.
Being a coach.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!!
Author: thehockeysummitblog
What’s The Rush?
“Be quick but don’t hurry.”
John Wooden
“Let’s not be in a rush to look like crap……”
Unnamed Coach
One of the age old questions in sport, and in hockey especially, is when should a player move to ‘the next level’, or play at a ‘higher level’? Obviously there is no single correct answer. All players develop at a different pace and no one path is correct for everyone. Nobody can accurately predict what a very young player can turn out to be and what they should or should not do to find their way.
(It is important to remember and note at this point the large number of players playing in the NHL who were undrafted…..)
What seems to constantly appear though are players rushing to get to the ‘highest level’ they can play at as soon as they can. Not factoring how much they are going to play or even how much they will be able to develop in that environment. It is a very dangerous area and can make an extreme difference in the development trajectory of a player.
Certainly there are players that can excel and need to be challenged by older more experienced players, but they are few and far between. It is only my opinion but there seems to be a huge focus on ‘getting there’, and not really thinking about what can go on once ‘there’…….
This is something that has been sticking in my head for quite a while so I wanted to get some other opinions and ideas about this topic. I asked about ten Division 1 college coaches about this and it was really interesting to hear their input. A common thread became obvious. Here are some of their answers:
Coach 1: “When we look at a player to recruit, remember we are looking at what a player will be like two, three, four or even five years down the road….. but we want to see them play, what they can do in a game, whatever the level. It is no use trying to evaluate a young player sitting on the bench in a really good league.”
Coach 2: “The most frustrating thing we come across is seeing a young player who is a huge part of his team, a leader, playing in key parts of a game……..move to a higher level too quickly, hit a wall and start to struggle. Some of them, a lot of them…don’t recover.”
Coach 3: “Do we like to see players play at the highest and most competitive level? Absolutely but it is not the league or level we commit to…..it is the player. Whether we recruit at the U16, U18, Junior, NAHL or USHL, that player has to be a big part of that team. No question about it……”
One of my favorite quotes from a coach was this, “There is a difference between playing at a high level and playing with a high level of intelligence……..”
In having these conversations, the common thing that kept coming from these coaches was that in their opinion, it is best to be patient. Take your time. Do not rush into chasing a higher league or level. Make sure whatever team you are on, you are going to be a very important player for that team. If you can do that and be that player at the highest level, then go for it!
Here are some interesting numbers about the best junior league in the United States, the USHL and it’s players. A lot of young players I talk to say they are looking and ready to go play there. But are they really?
We took a look at the players birth years on the active rosters and broke it down. The NTDP was eliminated as all their players are mainly 96 birth years. Here is the remaining 15 Teams and the approximate breakdown.
Birth Year
1993-41 players
1994-138 players
1995- 126 players
1996-51 players
1997 12 players
What is really interesting is out of the approximately 60 or so 96 and 97 birth year players, less than half seem to be playing average amounts of minutes or contributing significantly statistically to their teams.
There is always a lot to consider when making the decision on what level to play at.
I hope some of this helps when evaluating your options.
All the best!
A Little Fellow Follows Me
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
I found this while doing some coaching research on the legendary basketball coach, John Wooden.
In case you did not know, Coach Wooden was voted the greatest coach of all time by The Sporting News in 2009. Coach Wooden passed away in 2010 at the age of 99.
Coach Wooden won 10 national championships at UCLA, winning more than 80 percent of his games over 27 seasons. When asked about his winning ways and success, he constantly shifted focus away from that and said that true fulfillment came from the rewards of a life spent teaching, mentoring and improving lives.
One of the amazing things I found out about him was that he kept this poem in his wallet with him at all times, right up to his death. Through all the championships, games, travel, accolades and practices.
It just so happens that the poem was presented to Coach in 1936 when his son was born but he said it helped him along the way remember the true meaning of coaching throughout his amazing career.
If this is good enough for the greatest coach of all time……..it is good enough to share with everyone.
Enjoy.
Yesterday, Hockey Won
The last few weeks there have been a lot of things involving hockey that have been concerning to say the least. Ugly on ice incidents, arrests off the ice and a continual parade of players heading to the NHL league offices to be the latest players suspended for violent head shots. Tough to read the old Twitter feed lately these days…..
But yesterday I witnessed something that in my opinion was pretty special.
Yesterday, hockey won.
I help coach the U18 Wilkes Barre/Scranton Hockey team and we played Team Comcast U18. Both teams are filled with very talented, passionate young hockey players. All our games against them this season will no doubt be very competitive and intense.
Yesterday was supposed to be different. Yesterday was different.
Early in the week, Comcast had tragically lost a fellow teammate, Alexander Thomas. The circumstances of Alexander’s death are not important. Their team and their family lost someone who they loved dearly and was part of them.
There are no words that adequately express that kind of loss and pain. Especially for 16 and 17 year old teammates.
But yesterday for a short time, hockey won.
Those young men from Team Comcast wanted to play and here is what they did. They pulled together. They began to mourn their loss. And they asked us not to cancel a game we had scheduled shortly after Alexander’s death. His teammates wanted to play. They needed to play…..They wanted to be together. They needed to be together. They needed the game…….
Looking at the game you would think that Team Comcast would have a very difficult time. It would be virtually impossible for them to prepare, focus and play a game after the week they had just lived through.
For close to 60 minutes yesterday, their young players put on their hockey gear as players do, warmed up, and battled a team that was well rested and had not gone through anything emotionally close to what they had gone through. They played hard, they played smart and they played disciplined. They deserved to win the game although they came up just short. I found a big part of myself cheering for them and in some ways hoping they would find a way to win. Not really what a coach of an opposing team should do, but I am sorry. That is how I felt.
But here is the most important thing. They did not lose. We did not win. Hockey won. Again. Like it has so many times over the course of history, hockey was there to help people heal. It gave those young men a reprieve from the agony. It gave them a place they could go to temporarily be free from the pain. During a game at that level a certain kind of focus takes over where so many things have to get blocked out. That team and coaching staff should be proud of their will, strength and commitment to lace up their skates and compete like they did. Their coach even came in after the game to thank our team for playing and shared some kind words. I guess he understood that our guys were confused too. It was an example of total class.
Yesterday, hockey won……
As a young player in the NHL I was once on a team where one of our teammates lost his wife during childbirth and we had to play that night after getting the news. It was one of the most confusing and difficult things I have been through. Hockey didn’t make it right, but it provided a platform for us to lean on one another and somehow find the strength to move forward. We managed to come together, pray for our teammate, and get out as a family and play a good game.
Hockey won that night for a brief time.
I think I saw that same power again yesterday.
People will often say, “Hockey just really isn’t that important…..” In the grand scheme of things, they are 100% correct. But we should also never underestimate or forget that hockey also has some special qualities that help us all heal.
Dealing with their loss will forever be difficult. It is part of growing into an adult. But I hope that what those young Comcast players take away from yesterday is a feeling of pride about how they competed. They began to overcome what life has thrown at them. How it is important to always remember a fallen teammate and to honor him by being a team that forges on.
Yesterday, hockey won.
Knight Time
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Armor and Weapons
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A knight was armed and armored to the teeth. He had so much armor and weapons that he depended on his squire to keep his armor and weapons clean and in good working condition. At first the armor was made of small metal rings called chain mail. A knight wore a linen shirt and a pair of pants as well as heavy woolen pads underneath the metal-ringed tunic. A suit of chain mail could have more than 200,000 rings. However, chain mail was heavy, uncomfortable, and difficult to move in. As time passed, knights covered their bodies with plates of metal. Plates covered their chests, back, arms, and legs. A bucket like helmet protected the knight’s head and had a hinged metal visor to cover his face. Suits of armor were hot, uncomfortable, and heavy to wear. A suit of armor weighed between forty and sixty pounds. Some knights even protected their horses in armor.
A knight also needed a shield to hold in front of himself during battle. Shields were made of either wood or metal. Knights decorated their shields with their family emblem or crest and the family motto.
A knight’’s weapon was his sword, which was about thirty-two pounds. It was worn on his left side in a case fastened around his waist. A knife was worn on the knight’s right side. Knights used other weapons in combat as well. A lance was a long spear used in jousts. Metal axes, battle hammers, and maces were also used to defeat the enemy.
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These Knights are pretty good too!!! 🙂
For All The Coaches
Last week I wrote a short piece on Lou Holtz and received a good deal of positive responses from many coaches. One of the best parts of doing what I do is that I get to interact with so many coaches at all levels. I am always amazed at their passion and love for the game and helping young players. I too have been lucky to be an assistant coach with a team at the U18 level this year. It has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I have come to understand what makes this passion come out in people. So I put this together for anyone out there coaching at any level. Enjoy!
In Japan, a ‘Sensei’ is ‘one who has gone down a path.’ In martial arts it is the designation for ‘Master’.
Lou’s Rules
At practice the other day I mentioned legendary college football coach Lou Holtz to one of our players. I was shocked when the young player wasn’t really sure who he was. I then remembered how old I was…..
So I told him I would find something from Coach Holtz for him and share it.
This is for him and anyone else who needs a little lift from Coach Holtz. This excerpt and rules are from one of his books.
Hope you share them with your young players. Enjoy!
Not Big, But Who Cares? (from Dman Summit Club)
I thought I would put together a couple of examples of Dmen who are not considered huge by any means but are huge contributors to their team.
The team I help coach has dmen who aren’t over-sized so hopefully this helps them visualize. These are two of the most valuable dmen in the greatest league in the world.
Here we go.
Erik Karlsson-6’00” 175lbs.
Kris Letang- 6’00” 195lbs.
Obviously these guys are great players because of how well they skate. But watch these examples and pay attention to the way they:
-compete
-play hard
-jump up in the play but always recover quickly
-are strong on the puck
-make fast, committed plays
-shoot the puck quickly and have short incredible releases
-get pucks thru to net
-don’t over-handle the puck. Move it quickly and then jump into the play
-are willing to battle bigger players
Human Touch
“I ain’t looking for praise or pity, I ain’t coming around searching for a crutch. I just want someone to talk to, and a little of that human touch……”
Bruce Springsteen
Human Touch
Two recent stories to share from the world of hockey. I recently had a young player that I am working with who is being recruited to play at a higher level. He was asked to get in touch with the coach of this team and I passed that information on to the player. The player said, “Sure, no problem…..do you have his cell phone number so I can text him?” That’s right……text him.
Story number two. At the same showcase event ,I heard a parent tell a story of two U16 players on a team that had been practicing together for two weeks, run into each other at their new school and not recognize each other until they passed each other a couple of times. (I guess they weren’t wearing their helmets…..) Now in fairness to the kids, they were new to the team and new to the school. But after two weeks of practice don’t you think they should know each other pretty well. This story went on for a while and then drifted into the parents talking more about the kids at a dinner texting each other from one end of the table to the other. I have heard many other stories of kids on a bus doing the same thing. Usually ends up in a little chuckle from the parents.
So, of course these stories now manage to translate to a new blog topic!
Sure, this is a topic that everyone is talking about but this blog is about hockey so this will pertain to hockey.
Now I really don’t want to sound like that ‘old’ guy who only talks about better days gone by but I am sure that I already do. I am not anti-tech or anti-social media at all. In fact I love it. Love Twitter. Love Facebook. Heck, you are reading this on a blog…..These are all phenomenal tools for information and great ways to enhance team communication. I just hope they are not going to replace team communication.
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest and on and on. Too many to keep track of. It seems like there is a whole group of young people and young players that are more confident expressing themselves on a keyboard than having a conversation with an actual live person. I know. I have three of them. So how does this affect them when it comes to hockey?
I am always fascinated by the amount of time, energy and money that is used to help players develop. It is amazing and parents and coaches should be commended. Athletes are always looking for the competitive ‘edge’. Something that separates them from the next player. This of course is when I chip in my opinion whether you agree with it or not. Here is a little training/recruiting tip that costs $0. Nothing….. Help your young player learn to converse better than the next player. Have them be able to sit down, look a potential coach directly in the eye and tell them why they would be good for their program and what their strengths as a player and person are. Here is the kicker…….they have to do it in MORE than 140 characters.
Coaches are human beings. (well most of them are….) They spend huge amounts of time with players after they recruit or draft them. They are looking to see what players are like off the ice as well. How they can stand up socially.
I recently talked to a college coach at a major Division 1 program and asked him about this situation concerning communication. Here is what he said;
“If it is even close to deciding between two recruits, there is no doubt that the player that I have a good conversation with will be the one we go with. No doubt about it. Let’s face it. We have to deliver our message and it is important players can express themselves directly to us as well……we sure don’t want to read about their thoughts on Twitter…..” Interesting point.
So what can be done to help our young players?
Here are some ideas that some people have shared with me and by all means let me know any suggestions you might have as well so we can share.
Obviously, challenge them to talk more. But not just to you. To their teammates, coaches, friends, teachers, neighbors…..etc. Explain to them how important this could be to them and why. Appeal to their desire to get better at hockey. This is hockey. This is part of them being a complete player.
Have designated times to put the cell phones away. Maybe during meals. On the team bus. In the locker room. Wherever you think you can and it is allowable. Have them change roommates on the road. Maybe as coaches encourage them to speak in team meetings. Run a video session.
Get them comfortable talking to other adults. Maybe ask your coach or team manager if they would host a mock recruiting or draft interview. I know of a coach that video taped the interviews and had the players watch themselves speak and try to improve. Anything that will challenge them. Let’s get them out of their comfort zone. We do it for them when it comes to training and coaching. The same should be done when developing their ability to communicate. It would be a shame to do all the right things to help your player develop and everything gets ruined by a bad interview with a coach.
That is something you don’t want to read about on Twitter……….
Please encourage everyone to share this blog on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, etc. And yes even through word of mouth…….:)
Crashing The Net
Dmen, this is something that I put together for the forwards but it is something that all dmen need to be aware of. This is how good effective forwards think and what their mindset is or should be concerning ‘crashing the net’ and scoring goals.
During a coaches clinic in the summer, John Riley a scout for the Philadelphia Flyers, presented on this topic and just how important and vital it is in today’s game. This mindset and a willingness to play in the ‘nasty’ areas is something all scouts look for. Some of these concepts were taken directly from John’s presentation. (Assist to Scout Riley)
I hope these 9 examples help the forwards get a visual of what it takes.
Example 1-Classic Example of the amount of traffic it takes sometimes to score….
Example 2-Watch the forward drive to the front of the net…..not the side.
Example 3-Division 1 Hockey-Listen to the announcer and watch Minnesota and their mindset.
Example 5- Again to the front of the net……not the side……goalie can’t save what he can’t see…..
Example 6- Again, look at the forward and him getting position and looking for point shot. Not fun but has to be done…..
Example 7-Again, listen to the announcer and how he sums it up…..
Example 8- Watch the front of the net and how the forwards are willing to pay the price……
Example 9- Nothing really needs to be said here, just watch this guy…….
So just to wrap it up, sometimes to score it is nasty, tough, ugly work that has to be done. Everyone wants to score the ‘pretty’ goal but hopefully this points out that the majority of goals are like these examples.
Remember at the end of the season they never ask “How?” They just ask “How Many???”